Its so easy to eye someone, and get interested in someone.
But really, after that, comes the dating part, and then the maintaining part, then the sharing the same roof part. :D
Dont be too rush to commit.
Like people say, Your wife can make life a hell on earth for you. :D
hey... why is it only wife that is the problem.
Being together requires obedience from the wife side okie... the wife needs to obey the husband and be under the leadership of the husband. If the husband isn't one that is of a character that you feel will treat you well...
Every Man has the authority to be a leader, but not every man has the ability to be a leader.
Everyone with their emotional disability and flaws that not all are able to handle is masked behind this thing called skin, or looks, or for some very good looks.
Open up your eyes, and see beyond.
thats why courtship is so important.
the need to see if the husband will treat you well treat you with respect, ability to be changed and humility thats of within.
then again people will say, after the guy gets the girl, its a whole new story. :D
If only a Wife is just to bring home, sit, look pretty and fulfill the Husband's needs.
nope, theres the maid part, :D or should I say the housework and looking after children part.
Who can find a Wife that's describe in Prov 31? (Perhaps theres a purpose why it is placed in the last chapter in the Book of Proverbs ba) the part that is dedicated to the Virtuous Wife.
The one thats able to Bring up their Child, Still being Relevant in Style (Dressing included), Being the helper to the Husband even financially.
Thats why it goes,
Prov 18:22
He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the LORD.
So ladies, dont give man an easy time getting you okie? ;) Test them till their Core! :D
I bet the male readers are rolling their eyeballs at this moment. :D
:D
Be Bless!
Love,
Amanda