This entry is inspired by a brother. We were just talking about relationship.
:)
Was just looking back at how I've been dealing with all those little likes I have on specific guys.
Realize that all these are really just a season and a time.
Its that period of time when these thoughts would flood your mind.
Just really make you want to do something about.
To really hang on to that liberty of confessing and loving a person so freely.
I feel thats really beautiful, cos all humans needs to love and be love.
I say that this phase is a phase that is extremely important for us to take hold of.
Turn it around and look at it this way.
I might be super crazy about this guy, he is reachable in realistic way, but just didnt approach.
Am i not able to lay my head down on the pillow and fall asleep?
Seriously... it wont cause me to die.
Indeed love is sweet, but all things needs maintainance. Even love.
Falling in love daily, consistently, with the same person that is.
So what I'm trying to say is, dont jump into a relationship at a tender age, in the height of emotions and feelings.
Take time off, its just a season.
Like Pastor preach, theres 4 level to the establishment of a relationship. First the Introduction, then the acquaintance, then the friends, and so finally being together as a commitment.
Choose one at a matured age. When both are establish and am able.
Whatever you feed will grow.
Whatever you starve will loss control over you.
Having said all this, go to sleep. If one life and you cant manage, need not say one life that has involvement with another.
Maybe you say im using too much brain, well, do not the heart do silly things that made us regret? :)
Be Bless
Love,
Amanda
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